7 Ways to Build a More Positive Mindset

1.       “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.”
–          Double check – are you treating others the way you would want to be treated?-          Sometimes our frustration with others is a lesson for ourselves to make sure we too are acting and giving in the ways we expect to receive from others

2.       Thought awareness
–          We are not our thoughts. Our thoughts are separate from us.
–  Begin to take note of the kind of thoughts you are having. Are they positive, supportive, uplifting? Or are they more critical, judgmental, belittling?
–          Choose to tune your mental ‘radio station’ to supportive thoughts and turn the station on unsupportive thoughts.

3.       Understanding Emotions
–          Emotions are energy. Everything is energy. Our thoughts are energy.
–          All emotions are welcome and beautiful
–          To move through an emotion, welcome it, feel it, breath through it, and release it
–          Talk to yourself like you would a child in times of high emotion – be gentle with yourself too
–          Get curious and be an observer of your emotion
–          The more we resist and label certain emotions as wrong or bad – the more tension we feel and the more the energy gets stuck in the body creating an anxious mind.


4.       Mental strength in communication
–          Instead of quick automated responses – build intention and mindfulness into your communication to be understood better
–          When speaking with others – ground yourself into your body by feeling your feet, having good posture, and staying connected to your breath.
–          Respond from a place of authenticity by asking yourself questions such as: “is this true for me?’ ‘is this how I want to show up?’ ‘is this in alignment with my values?’
–          Pause before you respond so when you speak you feel really good about what you’re saying.

5.       Switching the mindset back
–          Use a mantra when you notice your thoughts aren’t supportive
–          Mantras: I like what I see, I love what I’m doing. Today is a good day, I am enjoying today.
–          Make a list of all the things you love
–          Make a gratitude list

6.       Making changes
–          Find clarity on where things are off (when things are off it creates anxiety)
–          Decide what needs to be changed
–          Determine what can be done to make those changes


7.       Making decisions / choices
–          The more we feel good about the choices we make, the more confidence we have, and the more we feel good in our own skin – therefore feeling good about the life we are living.
–          Get clear on your values – make decisions based around those values
–          When we make decisions that aren’t in alignment with our values there’s a part of us on the inside that gets thrown off. This creates anxiety and overwhelm.
–          When we make decisions in alignment with our values – our mind naturally becomes more positive and supportive. 


To go deeper into these topics visit the Mindset Series on my Youtube channel or schedule a free consultation below. 

Published by Jody Vining

Helping you live in such a way where you shine every day. Where you laugh so much you get your ab workout in for the day. Where your skin, eyes, and aura just glow with confidence, joy, and love, and it radiates off of you onto others. Life is supposed to be fun. We are here to feel joy, happiness, comfort, and love. We are meant to live our passions and dreams. My passions focus around Mindset, Food, Nutrition, Clean Lifestyle, and making sure you are fulfilled from the inside out. I accept you for exactly who you are. Our minds can get stuck in negative places so Im here to help you rewire those crazy thoughts, change around the habits that don't help you thrive and add in new ones that do. I remind you what it feels like to live intuitively. Being your True, Beautiful, Joyful, Authentic, Empowered Self. As you are meant to be. ∞ ∞ ∞ ∞ "The best kind of people are the ones that come into your life and make you see the sun where you once saw clouds. The people that believe in you so much, you start to believe in yourself too. The people that love you for being you. The once in a lifetime kind of people."

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